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If you want to meet and date older women, you need to pay attention to many details and avoid some mistakes that most men make.
Older women usually have a lot of emotional experience and they know what men are thinking. Therefore, you need to know how to have a conversation with older women and don't try to say things that they don't want to hear, otherwise you will lose the chance of a date.
Here are some common mistakes that are easy to make when talking to older women and you should avoid them.
Don't Just Focus on Their Age
Although you like older women, don't keep mentioning the word "older" because it will offend them and make them feel old.
No woman wants to grow old, so instead of mentioning age, you should focus on other aspects. Try to find some topics from the other person's profile that transcend age and emphasize the interests or experiences you both have in common. This will help to create a more balanced and respectful conversation.
Avoid Asking Them to Reminisce About the Past
Many men make this mistake. But when they can't find a topic to talk about and the other person is an older woman, they will mention the other person's past, such as "You must have been through a lot", or "In your time..."
This is a leading language that will make you recall all kinds of things you've experienced in the past, and then you'll feel old. You made the same mistake as the first point.
You should focus on treating them equally, and if they don't take the initiative to mention the past, you shouldn't ask them offensively.
Don't Compare Them with Younger Women
Avoid comparing older women with younger women. This comparison will make the other person feel belittled and hurt. Instead, praise the other person's strengths, such as maturity, charm, etc.
Avoid Condescending Language
This is also a common mistake most men make. Men often use the way they talk to young girls to talk to older women, which makes them feel extremely uncomfortable, such as "You haven't... yet, or "You should..."
Older women are often your elders in terms of age, and they have more life experience. They won't be happy to be "educated" by someone younger than them.
Don't Interrupt or Dominate the Conversation
Older women, like everyone else, like to be listened to. Avoid interrupting the conversation when the other person is talking, or trying to dominate the conversation. Instead, listen actively, show interest in what they say, and guide them to continue talking.
Don't Interrupt or Dominate the Conversation
Even if you want to have sex with the other person, don't show this intention too early, as it will make people feel that you are insincere. When both parties have established a certain level of trust and a comfortable and harmonious relationship, it is best and easiest to bring it up at the right time.